I wrote a previous post about compatibility, I listed 5 reasons, well here are two more. If you were undecided maybe these two will help.
Don’t Share Your Money
Lack of financial management is also another major issue many couples face in their relationships. Couples who purposely talk about finances and strategically manage their money as a team tend to avoid money problems.
If you’ve never talked about money before or you don’t stick to a budget, you may be incompatible. This is because couples who have different values about money find it difficult living in peace.
If you love saving money but he enjoys spending lavishly on the newest gadgets, there is trouble. If you want to have a successful relationship, you must talk about finances and manage your money as a team.
When you work on the same budget or money goals, you’ll understand each other better and even get closer. This will definitely help you improve your relationship and minimize unnecessary conflict.
7. There is a constant struggle for power
Most couples are usually opposites; one person is gentle while the other person is stubborn. And there are a few others who are exactly alike; they are either very stubborn which can lead to frequent clashes or they are very timid which can lead to unsatisfactory sex lives.
The couples who are almost like tend to struggle constantly for power; each person trying to outdo the other in one way or another. It’s no longer a relationship but a tug of war where they don’t listen to each other, compromise or support each other.
They usually do the opposite by always having the last word, having their way all the time and working to overthrow the other person. This kind of partners are very incompatible and their relationship will always be toxic unless they learn to work together.
If you and your partner constantly struggle for power in the relationship, this is a sure sign you’re incompatible. You won’t have a peaceful except you’re both willing to allow the other person to take the reins.
I’ve shared 7 obvious signs you’re not compatible with your partner; if you needed to be convinced, now you know. Do issues like these mean you need to give up on your relationship?
Not at all. Sometimes, men are slower to commitment than women. You may find that giving your boyfriend an ultimatum or simply letting him know how you feel could get you back on track.
If you still struggle to connect after investing much effort, you might be best off going your separate ways. At least that frees you up to look for someone who’s absolutely compatible with you. If you don’t let go, your true love may never find you!
But, before you hastily break it off with your partner, first find out if you’re compatible with a simple and free compatibility reading. It will highlight the areas you need to work on in order to make your relationship healthy and successful.